So it was just Ainsley and me, and honestly, looking back now, I think we were each other’s best thing.
It was just Ainsley and me.
I called my daughter “Bubbles” from the time she was about four years old. She was obsessed with the Powerpuff Girls, specifically Bubbles, the sweet one, the one who cried when things were sad and laughed loudest when things were funny.
We watched that cartoon together every Saturday morning with cereal and whatever fruit I could afford that week. Ainsley would climb up onto the couch cushion beside me, pull my arm around her, and be completely content.
Raising a kid alone on a hardware store salary and then later a foreman’s wage isn’t poetry. It’s math, and the math is usually tight.
Raising a kid alone on a hardware store salary and then later a foreman’s wage isn’t poetry.
I learned to cook because restaurants were a luxury. I learned to braid hair by practicing on a doll at the kitchen table because Ainsley wanted pigtails for first grade, and I wasn’t about to let her down.
I packed her lunches, attended every school play, and sat in on every parent-teacher conference.
I wasn’t a perfect father. But I was a present one, and I think that counted for something.
Ainsley grew up kind and funny, and quietly determined in a way I never fully took credit for, because honestly, I’m still not sure where she got it.
I learned to braid hair by practicing on a doll at the kitchen table.
