4️⃣ Projection of personal frustrations
In adulthood, some children project on their mother:
- failures,
- insecurities,
- own decisions that did not work.
It is easier to blame who was always to take personal responsibility.
5️⃣ Influence of third parties
Couples, friendships or even cultural discourses can sow ideas such as:
- “your mother controls too much.”
- “He manipulated you,”
- “He owes you more.”
When the child does not have a solid emotional self, he absorbs those narratives and distances himself without analyzing.
6️⃣ Emotional immaturity
Value involves empathy, perspective and gratitude.
An emotionally immature child:
- just think of himself,
- minimizes the effort of others,
- He reacts with anger to any limit.
It is not a matter of age, but of emotional development.
